This is a topic of many rainbows as it covers a range of areas. Why has this come to mind? Well each day I try and relate something on here. Whether it be for advice on what has occurred to myself, around me or to others. Do I think all things i writer are relevant? Absolutely not 😝 Relatable though, yes!
The early years I truly believed in limits. There was the normal push your parent too far limit. There was the act out in class enough limit. There were time limits on play, staying up and amount of candy we consumed.
As life continued on I decided to break free of the literal perfect box I was kept in. My personality was fit into the boundaries created for me by the environment I was stuck in. Two friends helped me do this they were names Tu & Mackenzie. First 3 way relationship first serious drunk first next level alters in personality took place. #then Wolf. I took off to new limits and began the erasing of little weevie boy. Growing up I was nick named Stevie weevie boy.
Those who know me and for those who have been reading the short stories here I am an addict in recovery. New limits or shall I say old limits minus the old behaviour surround myself today.
It is hard for me in the professional platform though, because I do not like watching clients push limits. Act as though there are no boundaries and or full on blind eye to regulation. I got a few work place woes and this LIMIT discussion can top the cake daily on the struggles on files.
I believe we all need limits. After knowing what it’s like to push the limit in many areas and near die over those actions; I know now that limits are unspoken or written for a reason. Etiquette, Behavioural and Self Binding Limits.
DO YOU AGREE? What is your thoughts?
When I was little and running on the race track at school, I always stopped and waited for all the other kids so we could run together even though I knew (and everybody else knew) that I could run much faster than all of them! I pretended to read slowly so I could "wait" for everyone else who couldn't read as fast as I could! When my friends were short I pretended that I was short too and if my friend was sad I pretended to be unhappy. I could go on and on about all the ways I have limited myself, my whole life, by "waiting" for people. And the only thing that I've ever received in return is people thinking that they are faster than me, people thinking that they can make me feel bad about myself just because I let them and people thinking that I have to do whatever they say I should do. My mother used to teach me "Cinderella is a perfect example to be" but I have learned that Cinderella can go fuck herself, I'm not waiting for anybody, anymore! I'm going to run as fast as I can, fly as high as I can, I am going to soar and if you want you can come with me! But I'm not waiting for you anymore.
C. JoyBell C.